Shun Expectations!! Adopt Hope :)

“If you expect nothing from anybody, you’re never disappointed.” 
― Sylvia Plath

And Sylvia must have been truly hurt while saying this...but truly practical as well. If you want to get unhappy , unsatisfied...go ahead... Expect as MUCH as you can.But remember Expectation is one habit , you will always repent. Let it be , because you don't need THEIR approval. Things like 'how am i looking?' , "is this work good?' , 'Can you help me?' , will never give you the answer that YOU want , but always , an answer which will disappoint you , or in extreme cases , shatter you . So chill! Relax! life is too short to ask for approvals , be secure in your own skin. Doesn't matter if the person isn't ready to take care of you , you are able enough to do so your ownself. Doesn't matter if you don't look pretty to the person in question , You are a princess to your own heart...and doesn't matter if the person doesn't love you back...you should be immersed in self love!!!! <3 :)

Yes , and as preachy as it may get..but at the end it's just one opinion that matters..your OWN opinion. Thousands of people may say good about you , but if you know you aren't , even 'n' number of approvals wont satisfy you and you will still go hunting for a 'nod'.But if you are secure enough , despite thousands refutes , you would still go to sleep with utter peace of mind and would know in heart...'I know i am good'

Don't expect your bosses to appreciate every single thing you do...they don't sit at your head all the time...but if YOU know you work hard...there is no question in point. You are ready to face whosoever! It doesn't even matter.

Life is too short to get tensed , unhappy and yes...tears are precious! Atleast for the ones who care. Leave expectations but always keep 'Hope' close to you.There is a difference between expectation and hope. I might expect my boss says , 'Komal you did a fabulous job'!!! but when i hope...i hope 'I do good work'.Expectations are subjective...Hope is Generic.If it doesn't get fulfilled..It doesn't hurt!

. Expectations are connected with people around you....Hope is inside you! People can kill expectations but hope is there to live forever!!!!!

p.s. Be happy! That smile is precious!